The One That Got Away

2000s Vivienne Westwood runway look.

Every collector has a story about the one that got away.

Mine lived briefly on a rack in a now closed Goodwill store on Steinway Street in Astoria, Queens sometime in the mid-2000s.

Back then, I had heard rumors about this particular location. Vintage shoppers whispered about it like a secret fishing hole. If you knew where to look and got there early enough, treasures surfaced. So one morning I made the trip.

I don't remember everything I bought that day. In fact, I couldn't tell you a single item that came home with me. But I can describe the one I left behind. It wasn't hanging openly on the rack. Someone had hidden it.

Experienced thrift shoppers know the trick. A promising find gets tucked between garments in the men's section or buried deep within a crowded rack until its discoverer can return with more cash. It's the closest thing the thrift store world has to burying treasure.

Normally I would have admired the ingenuity. But on that day I was the pirate. I found the stash!

There were several pieces hidden together, but one stood apart from the others. It was a European designer mini skirt unlike anything I had seen before. Beautifully made. Fashion-forward. The kind of piece that seemed straight from the runway.

I pulled it out and walked around the store with it draped over my arm. And then I made a mistake.

I put it back.

At the time, I justified the decision. The skirt looked impossibly small, probably a size 0. I couldn't wear it. I wasn't buying for a collection. I wasn't even really a vintage dealer yet. I was simply a shopper who liked unusual clothes.

So back onto the rack it went. I have no idea who bought it. I have no idea where it ended up. What I do know is that I've thought about that skirt for nearly twenty years.

The funny thing is that if I found it today, I would buy it without hesitation. Not because it would fit. Not because I planned to wear it. But because somewhere along the way I became a collector.

Collectors understand that certain objects are worth preserving even when they serve no practical purpose. They become markers of a moment, examples of extraordinary design, pieces of fashion history. That skirt would have gone straight into the archive.

The older I get, the more I realize that collecting isn't really about ownership. It's about recognition. Seeing something special and understanding its significance before it disappears.

Ironically, I've sold plenty of remarkable things over the years that I wish I had kept. Sometimes I'll scroll through my sold listings and feel a small pang of regret. Not because I should've charged more, but because those pieces are gone from my orbit forever.

Still, none of them haunt me quite like the skirt in Queens. Perhaps that's because it wasn't simply a garment. It was the moment before I learned how to trust my eye. It was the first thing that taught me the difference between shopping and collecting.

The Silk Crane Mystery

Every good vintage piece comes with a mystery. This one just happened to involve silk cranes, artificial intelligence, and a matching garment hiding in London.

I found it years ago in a thrift store in Atlanta — a soft pink silk garment covered in oversized orangey-red cranes. I bought it immediately because it was beautiful and it looked old, but once I got it home, I realized I had absolutely no idea what it actually was.

Like many Westerners, I used the word kimono broadly and incorrectly. Beyond recognizing that the garment was Japanese, I knew very little about traditional Japanese clothing or textile history. So the piece sat quietly in my collection for years — too special to donate back, too mysterious to properly sell.

Then one evening, I decided to finally investigate.

Using Google reverse image search, I uploaded a photograph expecting generic “vintage kimono robe” results. Instead, I got an almost immediate hit: the twin to my garment appeared on the Instagram of Sonoe Sugawara, a London-based dealer specializing in antique Japanese textiles.

Not only had I found a matching example across the ocean, but I also discovered something even more important:

It wasn’t a kimono at all.

It was a nagajuban.

Traditionally worn beneath a kimono, nagajuban served as protective underlayers designed to shield the outer garment from oils and wear. But despite being hidden garments, many were made with extraordinary care and artistry. Mine dates to approximately the 1920s and features woven silk cranes — symbols of longevity, elegance, and good fortune in Japanese culture.

Suddenly the piece transformed before my eyes. What I once thought was simply a “pretty silk kimono” became something far more layered: a garment with cultural meaning, textile history, and craftsmanship I hadn’t previously understood.

The deeper I researched, the more details revealed themselves. Comparing my piece to the London example, I noticed several subtle differences. The crane placement wasn’t identical, suggesting the garments were individually cut and assembled rather than mass-produced copies. The London example also retained its white collar, while mine does not — a reminder that these garments evolved over time through wear, cleaning, replacement, and ownership.

I also found myself thinking about how dramatically technology has changed vintage collecting. Years ago, this piece might have remained unidentified forever. Instead, artificial intelligence and image search tools allowed me to trace its history in a single evening — connecting an Atlanta thrift store find to a specialist dealer thousands of miles away.

And yes, after discovering comparable antique nagajuban listed in the $200–600 range, I finally raised my own price.

Not because the garment changed.

Because my understanding of it did.

Sometimes the real value of vintage lies not only in owning the object, but in uncovering the story stitched quietly inside it.

$275.00 @Etsy

Girl with an Acorn Earring

I have a love-hate relationship with squirrels.

It started in college when one broke into my dorm room. My roommate had left a half-eaten pizza by an open window, and this determined little creature chewed a hole through the screen to get that last slice. Unfortunately, once it had its fill, it couldn’t figure out how to leave.

I came back mid-feast to find a squirrel panic in progress—scrambling up walls, chittering, pooping, and flinging itself across the room until the RA and I finally managed to get the window open so it could escape.

For the next week, every time I walked to class, acorns rained down on me from the oak tree outside my dorm. I swear that squirrel told its tree-rat friends to pelt me in revenge. That’s how I earned the nickname “Squirrel Girl.”

Which brings me to these: Antique Acorn Earrings, modelled in sterling silver, circa 1880.

They’re dainty but full of character—Victorian-era craftsmanship that turns a humble acorn into something elegant and enduring. They’re a bit of a splurge, but exactly the kind of timeless piece “Squirrel Girl” would wear with pride. Proof that sometimes, even the most chaotic beginnings can inspire a little bit of shine. ($530)